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HOW TO APPLY FOR A MARRIAGE LICENSE In

Aruba

The Bahamas 

Barbados

The British Virgin Islands 

The Cayman Islands

Cook Islands   

Hawaii 

Jamaica 

Las Vegas

Puerto Rico

Fiji

Tahiti

The Turks and Caicos

The U.S. Virgin Islands

 

What is a Destination Wedding

You could be relaxing ...

Instead of running around picking up all the extras and making sure the catering is set, the music is right, the flowers are flowering, your moms flight is on time, and if the bridesmaids shoes are the right color, you can be sitting on a beach waiting for your nail appointment. How can this be you ask ? The true destination wedding you let control of the details, You let the destination shine as your decorations Your wedding party clothes are more casual. Your on the beach, shoes are optional. The reception has been handled by your hotel, us or your choice of vendors. And your not sweating the small stuff. But you still may have to pick your Mom up at the airport.   Back

What if my best friend Can't make it.

Well we hope its not your best friend, but you know no matter where or when you have your wedding somebody won't be able to make it. But before your plans are set you should try to check to see who would be able and interested in coming along for the ride. Just keep in mind this is your day. The other issue for your friends and family is money, but well talk more about that later.  Back

How do I know if a Destination Wedding is for me?

If you have been dreaming of a big church wedding with a lot of bridesmaids than maybe this isn't for you unless your budget can handle it. If your mom will never forgive you for not having the wedding of her dreams, than maybe it isn't for you.

What do I do about every one else.

Everyone has your wedding planned, and your mom has been planning this day FOREVER. What to do, what to do? This is probably the hardest one, so what is the solution? Let her plan the dinner reception, take her with you when  you buy your dress, there are still plans to be made (you will still want her checkbook). When everyone has a different idea this sometimes works well because it puts it back in your hands. You don't have to worry about 6 bridesmaids you don't know or where weird Uncle Tom sits. It's different, it's romantic, and it's your day. And Mom will love sitting on the beach the rest of the week.   Back

Money Money Money  

Who pays for what?? As far as the planning of the ceremony and the Reception. Same as if you were getting married at home. Your parents His parents You need to know where everyone stands. The expenses are just going to vary. Here's some things to think of first of all the total cost of a wedding at home. And then decide how you or your parents will divide the expenses . You may or may not want to pay some of the costs of airfare for your wedding party. You know what your friends and your own wallet can handle. Remember when you pick your destination to consider what your wedding party can handle. You need to count the price of meals into your plan for the people you pay to get there. "Idea" if the grooms family can contribute let them handle there own air and hotel and that of the groomsmen But it is O.K. to ask the wedding party to pay for there airfare.  When you  do not  have to pay a caterer or a florist you have a lot of options on how to use your money. Not everyone will be able to afford to attend destination wedding. Here is a sample of a budget priced wedding in Hawaii.   Back

Is all right to ask my guests to pay for there room and airfare? 

  A lot of people travel to get to a wedding even if you have it in your home town. So  asking then to pay for there own  airfare is the fine. They will all have there one personal schedules  to deal with. Normally the host will pay for there Rooms, and some of there food. But let them know before they arrive what meals you are covering. I suggest a What's going on flyer. But if your family and friends have more money than you it's O.K. to change that formula. Every one is different.     Back

Why do I need a wedding planner?

Your wedding is just too important to just point and click. If you don't use us, use somebody please. Most of the time we turn the planning over to the hotel they have the paid experts. But we gladly keep a eye on the big picture. We have the expertise to make your wedding dreams a reality. We will always do our best to make sure you have the best. And you always have the last say.

A Wedding package usually  just the ceremony, here is one from the Sunset Beach Resort and Spa in Jamaica  

bulletService of a marriage officer to perform ceremony, process all documents and procure license and marriage certificate
bulletMale and female witnesses
bulletServices of an on site wedding coordinator
bullet1 bottle of sparkling local white wine
bullet1 one-tiered wedding cake
bullet1 bridal bouquet and grooms boutonniere
bullet2 5" x 7" photographs 

Total Cost US $400.00        Back

This is a package from the Hyatt Regency in Maui that includes 2 nights stay

Tropical Ocean View setting complete with White Lattice Gazebo adorned with Fresh Flowers

Non ~ Denominational Minister

Hawaiian Procession to include Conch Shell Blower, Hula Dancer, Drummer and Hawaiian Guitarist

2 Tiered 6" & 9" Wedding Cake with Tier Separators and Fresh Flowers

Deluxe Hawaiian Floral Centerpiece

1 Bottle of Louis Roederer "Cristal" Champagne

Deluxe Cascading Bridal Bouquet and Boutonniere with
Upgraded Hawaiian Wedding Leis to exchange

Sprinkled Flower Petals for aisle

Dove Release of 10 Birds in basket

Private "Oceanside Dining for 2" with Solo Musician for 2 hours

Honeymooner's Breakfast In Bed

Complete Wedding Coordination

Deluxe 12" x 16" wedding certificate with handcrafted calligraphy

Bridal "Spa Package" to include:

Bridal Hair Styling, Makeup Application, Manicure and Pedicure

Maui Sugar Scrub and Body Wrap

Rose Petals on Bed

2 nights spent in one of our "Deluxe Ocean Suites"

Price: $9,995
 There are many companies in these sun soaked destinations that will give you a wedding package and perform the service off of the hotel grounds.    Back

Send your Luggage ahead

Cruse Lines that have ready made packages

On Carnival you can  be married on ship packages start at $750.00 or at some ports of call, wedding packages starting at $995.00

On Disney Cruse Line  You can sail on a wonderful cruise and get married on Disney's private island

Princess Cruises Has a web cam so your friends that can't be there can watch on the web.

On Royal Caribbean You can choose to have your wedding at your port of embankment or at one of the exotic ports of call.

Holland America  Has wedding packages start at $1,295 for North America or the Caribbean.     Back

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Marriage in Aruba

Civil marriages are now possible in Aruba, but they must take place at the City Hall. Couples may also arrange a religious blessing after they have been legally married or just hold a romantic celebration beachside if they prefer.
The following are the guidelines for the various ceremonies.

CIVIL Legal Requirements:
1. Couple must provide from their Country of Citizenship an “apostile” report (a statistics search from the Bureau of Vital Statistics) as Proof that they are both indeed single and eligible to marry.
2. Each person must submit copies of their birth certificate with a raised seal.
3. If either party has been divorced they must submit a copy of their divorce decree.
4. If either party has been widowed, they must submit a copy of the death certificate.
5. Couple must be holders of valid passports and submit with their application, copies of the pages showing all relevant details.
6. Copies of the passport pages of their witnesses must also be submitted (if couple does not have any witnesses, we will provide them at an additional fee).
7. All documents are to be faxed for review and then submitted by courier (i.e. FedEx) at least one (1) month prior to desired wedding date.
  Office of Civil Registry
  Attn: Mr. Betto Christiaans
  Schoolstraat 2
  Oranjestad, Aruba
  Tel: 011 (297) 583-4400
  Fax: 011 (297) 583-9160
  pivaruba@setarnet.aw
8. All civil ceremonies must take place inside the City Hall (Bureau Burgerlijke Stand) in Oranjestad.
9. Ceremonies are performed Wednesdays through Fridays.
10. Times are from 9:30 am - 12:00pm.

CATHOLIC:
(Must call first as this is on hold until review of procedures is complete):

1. Proof That the prospective bride and groom have attended pre-marriage preparation.
2. Permission from their priest to get married in Aruba.
3. An official declaration stating that neither party has been previously married in a Church is also required from their local priest.
4. Copy of Wedding Certificate showing that they have been legally married in their home country.
5. Baptismal and Confirmation certificates of both parties as well as copies of their passports or I.D. Cards.
6. The proposed wedding must take place “inside” the Church building.
7. All documents must be submitted 4 months prior to chosen wedding date.

PROTESTANT / EPISCOPALIAN / METHODIST:
1. Wedding Ceremony can be affiliated in the local Protestant / Episcopalian or Methodist Churches or anywhere else the couple desires.
2. If Married outside Aruba, copy of marriage certificate from their home country.
3. Proper attire is required for all “religious blessings”( ie: No Swimsuits nor Wraps for the Bride: Shorts are acceptable for the Groom.

JEWISH:
1. Both partners MUST bet Jewish and need to submit a verification of Judaism from the Rabbi of their hometown
2. The Aruban Cantor accepts Jewish status certificates from valid Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Liberal and Re-Constructionist Authorities.
3. A formal petition needs to be submitted to the Aruba Jewish Community.
4. The wedding ceremony may take place either in the synagogue or any other venue of choice.
5. The synagogue of Aruba is an independent Conservative-Reform style congregation.

AT SEA:
A boat captain is not authorized to officiate a wedding according to Dutch laws. This applies for international waters as well as in port. The only exception to this rule is if he has been given authority by the country under whose flag the ship is registered.


USA 1-800-TO-ARUBA ata.newjersey@aruba.com www.aruba.com. Back

The Bahamas 

Requirements For Obtaining a Marriage License in The Bahamas.
 

Both parties must be in The Commonwealth of the Bahamas at the time of the application.

Persons wishing to be married in the Commonwealth of The Bahamas may do so after one day. That is to say, if a person arrives in The Bahamas on Monday, they may come into the Registrar General Office on Tuesday, obtain a Marriage License (while waiting), and be married on the same day.

If either part has been divorced, the original final decree or a certified copy must be produced. If either party is widowed, being certified of the deceased spouse must be produced. If either party is unmarried, being a citizen or resident of the U.S.A., a declaration certifying this fact must be sworn before a U.S. Consul at the American Embassy, Nassau, The Bahamas.

If either party is unmarried, being a citizen or resident of a country other than the U.S.A., a declaration certifying this fact must be sworn before a Notary Public or other person authorized to administer oaths in that country and must accompany the application for the marriage License.

 

The parties must produce some form of identification which has a photograph attached. The identification document must have been issued by a Government Office in the country where the parties reside.

The parties must produce evidence of the date of their arrival in The Bahamas.
Persons desirous of being married in a family Islands ( any Island outside of New Providence) can obtain a Marriage License at the Commissioners’ Office on that Island and need not come to Nassau.
No blood test is necessary.
The fee for the license is $100.00.
Note: Marriage licenses are issued at the office of the Registrar General in Nassau. This office is opened to the public Mondays to Fridays between the hours of 9:30 a.m. – 4:30p.m.

Address: P. O. Box N- 532
Nassau, Bahamas
Tel: (242) 322-3316
Fax: (242) 322-5553

Contact the Bahamas Ministry of Tourism at 800-422-4262 or www.bahamas.com. Back

Barbados

Valid Passports or the original or certified copies of birth certificates.

If either party was divorced, an original Decree Absolute or a certified copy of the Final Judgment.

If either party was previously married and widowed, a certified copy of the Marriage Certificate and Death Certificate in respect of the deceased spouse.

Where necessary, all documents not in English must be accompanied by a certified translation.

Fees: if neither party is a citizen or resident of Barbados - BDS $150.00 cash and a $25.00 stamp.

Contact the Barbados Tourism Authority at 800-221-9831 or www.barbados.org. Back

The British Virgin Islands  

Couples are required to be in the territory three (3) days before you get married. You can apply for a license the same day of your arrival at the Attorney General's Office, situated on the second floor of the Central Administration Complex. Road Town, Tortola.

THE REQUIREMENTS OF THE ATTORNEY GENERAL'S OFFICE ARE:

$110.00 (in BVI postage stamps) for a special license for those residents in The BVI for 3 days

$50.00 (in BVI postage stamps) for a special license for those residents in The BVI for 15 days

Your passport as proof of identity and arrival date in BVI

Proof of marital status (certified or original copies of decree absolute for divorced spouses or death certificate for deceased spouses)

Two witnesses needed

a) for signing the license application and

b) to be present at the marriage ceremony (witness need not be the same for both exercises, persons in The BVI may be selected as witnesses)

Having applied for the license, you go to the Registrar General's Office to schedule an appointment for the date and time you propose to be married. The Registrar General's Chamber office is located in Road Town, upstairs of Burhym Electrical.

  Contact the British Virgin Islands Tourist Board at 800-835-8530 or www.bvitouristboard.com. Back

The Cayman Islands  
Couples can marry the same day they arrive in the Cayman Islands, including those arriving by cruise ship. There are several Wedding Coordinators in the Cayman Islands that can assist you with all your arrangements, however simple or creative, from legal requirements to party planning.

Couples must arrange for a marriage Officer and a Non-Resident Marriage License. A list of licensed Marriage Officers can be obtained by calling the Deputy Chief Secretary’s Office at 1-345-949-7900 0r 1-345-914-2222. Arrangements with the Marriage Officer should be made prior to filing the application for the marriage License.

 The Marriage License can be obtained from the Deputy Chief Secretary, 3rd Floor, Government Administration Building, George Town, Grand Cayman. Phone: 1-345-949-7900. The total fee for the License including stamp is $200 U.S. (or CI $160 in Cayman Islands Dollars).

 The application includes full names, permanent addresses and occupations of both parties, and temporary address in the Cayman Islands. It must be signed by both parties and must also include the name of the Marriage Officer performing the ceremony.

The License can be obtained on the same day of application.

Couples will also need to provide the following when applying for a Marriage License.
Cayman Islands International Immigration Department Pink Slip showing proof of entry. Visitors arriving by air receive this from Immigration upon arrival into the Cayman Islands. Cruise passengers may present their ship boarding passes to demonstrate they are legally in port.

 Valid passports or original or certified copies of birth certificates along with photo identification. Photocopies are not accepted. The minimum legal age to marry without parental consent is 18.

In the case of second marriages, original or certified copies of divorce or death certificate are required. Photocopies are not accepted.

Two witnesses present at the ceremony. You may provide your own or ask the Manager Officer to assist you in arranging this.

 Contact the Cayman Islands tourism board at 877-422-9626 or www.caymanislands.ky. Back

Cook Islands

Legal age of consent to marry is 20 years, otherwise written approval by parents required.

Application for License must be made in person to the Registrar of Marriages in the Cook Islands at least 3 working days prior to the marriage.

Documents Needed. Your passport and birth certificate will be required when filling out the " Notice of Intended Marriage" at the Registrars Office. If divorced a copy of the Decree Absolute in English will be required.

Fees;
Marriage License $50.00.
Marriage Certificate $15.00
Marriage Waiver Fee ( If you wish to be married less than the 3 days residency requirement) $45
Marriage Amendment Fee $20.00
Church Minister or Priest a donation ( we suggest minimum of $50.00)
Marriage Celebrant $100.00
Registrar of the Court. Free if conducted between 8am and
4pm week days and in courtroom only.
Registrars will conduct the wedding between 4pm & 6pm away from courtroom for $45.00.

Churches on the Island;
Cook Islands Christian Church, (Protestant) Latter Day Saints, Seventh Day Adventists, Roman Catholic. It will be necessary to check with your local minister regarding the requirements to marry in the Church as they will also apply to the Cook Islands. Cook-Islands.com

Marriage Inquiries
Registrars Department
Department of Justice and Lands Ph: (682) 29-410
PO Box 11 Fax: (682) 29-610
Rarotonga, Cook Islands, South Pacific
E-mail: offices@justice.gov.ck  Back

Fiji

1. Original or certified copy of birth certificates

2. Passports (with valid visitors permit)

3. Decree Absolute documents (divorce papers) if relevant

4. Officially witnessed consent of your father if you are under 21 (or mother if father is deceased)

5. Death certificate of deceased former spouse (if relevant)

6. To present yourself together at the Registry Office when applying for the license which can be obtained within one working day. This must be done in Fiji. Registry offices are in Suva and Lautoka, while District Offices throughout Fiji also facilitate this.

7. Registration offices are open between 9.00am and 3.00pm Monday through Friday. Registration formalities take about 15 minutes.

8. The fee is FJD$22.00 and the license is valid for 21 days.

9. Confirmatory letter on current status to be obtained from marriage Registry where the applicant resides or statutory declaration signed by a Justice of Peace or Notary Public or Solicitor to prove that he/she has not entered into a marriage before (this declaration applies to first or second marriage).

10. Applicants from Asian Nationals who are named herein: Chinese/Philippines/Pakistan/India) are to apply one (1) month in advance for their marriage license

Mailing Address:
Registrar of Births, Deaths & Marriages
PO Box 2236, Government Buildings
Suva
Fiji

Office Hours:
Registrar General's Office (Suva): 8.30am to 3.30pm Mon to Fri- Phone: (679) 3315280
Divisional Registrar Lautoka- 9.00am to 3.00pm Mon to Fri- Phone (679) 6665132
Divisional Registrar Labasa- 9.00am to 3.00pm Mon to Fri- Phone (679) 8812477 www.bulafiji.com  Back

Hawaii

The prospective bride and groom must appear together in person before a marriage license agent to apply for a marriage license. Proxies are not allowed.

The prospective bride and groom should be prepared to provide the necessary proof of age and present any required written consents and approvals. All of the necessary documents should be obtained prior to applying for a marriage license.

The prospective bride and groom must prepare an official application and file the application in person with the marriage license agent. Applications are provided by the marriage license agent or may be downloaded from this site (see below). The application will not be accepted if sent by either postal mail or e-mail.

Upon approval, a marriage license is issued at the time the application is made.

The marriage license costs $60.00, payable in cash at the time the application is made.

The marriage license is good only in, but is valid throughout, the State of Hawaii.

The marriage license expires 30 days from and  including the date of issuance, after which it automatically becomes null and void.

If you do not get married within the 30 days, return the unused license in the pre-addressed envelope provided to you for invalidation. Hawaii info page  Back to list of countries

Jamaica  

Visitors can be married just 24 hour after arriving in Jamaica providing prior application has been made for a marriage license.

The cost of a license is four thousand Jamaican dollars (approximately US$75-US$80).To apply for your marriage license, call the Ministry of National Security at 1-876-906-4908 or visit: The Ministry of National Security Mutual Life Building
2 Oxford Road, Kingston 5.
Office Hours: Monday to Thursday 9:00 A.M. to 5:00 P.M. Friday from 9:00
AM to 4:00 P.M.

Unlike many countries, Jamaica does not expect you take a blood test before getting married. However, the following documentation is required:

Proof of citizenship - certified copy of birth certificate, which includes father’s name.

Parent’s written consent if under 18 years of age.

 Proof of divorce if applicable (original certificate of divorce).

Certified copy of death certificate for widow or widower.

There are non-denominational Marriage Officers who can officiate either at their offices, in their homes or at a place chosen by the couple, and are able to provide witnesses. Marriage Officers charge anywhere from US$50 – US$250. www.visitjamaica.com/  Back

Las Vegas

Marriage License Requirements: Requirements for U.S. citizens and non U.S. citizens are the same.

    It is suggested that non U.S. citizens check with your local officials for special documents that may be needed to ensure that your marriage will be recognized in your country.

   Applicants must be a Male and a Female, at least 18 years of age, and not nearer of kin than second cousins or cousins of half blood, and not having a husband or wife living.

   Applicants may be required to prove their age. Those not having acceptable identification to prove age may be refused a marriage license. (Faxed copies, damaged identification, privately issued I.D., check cashing cards or photocopies of identification are unacceptable.)

    Social Security Numbers are required on the Affidavit of Application for a Marriage License. Please know your Social Security Number. Those without knowledge of their Social Security Number may be refused a marriage license.  It is recognized that non U.S. citizens will not have a Social Security Number.  Back

Puerto Rico

 No waiting period, but a blood test and license from the mainland must be authorized by a local doctor before marrying; $25 or less in fees. Contact the Puerto Rico Tourism Company at 800-866-7827 or www.gotopuertorico.com. Back

The Turks and Caicos  One-day wait, then two- to three-day license-application process; $50 in fees. Contact the Turks and Caicos Tourist Board at 800-241-0824 or www.turksandcaicostourism.com. Back

The U.S. Virgin Islands 

 The paperwork must arrive by mail eight days in advance of the ceremony; $50 in fees. Contact the U.S.V.I. Department of Tourism at 800-372-8784 or  To get your application. www.usvitourism.viBack

Tahiti

In Tahiti you need to be legally married and they will perform a blessing.  

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Plan For Romance 

It is almost as fun to plan for romance than it is to have romance, almost. Surprise your partner with a special event. You will be surprised how much fun you can have in making the plan.